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Wednesday, October 28, 2015

The Bloggess Is My Hero And I Want To Be Her When I Grow Up

The Bloggess has yet another hilarious book out, and it's flying off the shelves. I absolutely love The Bloggess, aka Jenny Lawson. She is, for lack of a better word, amazeballs. I know that if you are friends with me on Facebook you have seen my posts and links to her blog, but here on No Trade Jack, I have been reluctant to talk her up for fear that she will think I am using her fame to catapult myself to success. If I really wanted to do that though I could advertise on her hilarious site for a fair price to most, but to a lowly waitress, it breaks the bank.

I have been reading her blog since before she was super famous because of a recommendation from my hilarious friend Molly, WHO NEEDS TO UPDATE HER BLOG Erroneous On All Counts! SOMETIME BEFORE I DIE. Also, I'm like really hip (or rad, if you prefer more of an 80's tone to the adjectives you use to describe someone who is awesome) and so I read and see a lot of things way before anyone else and then I resent everyone who loves whatever it is I have already loved for a decade because *pssshaw* you should have been hip (or rad) before being hip (or rad) was cool. But, because I still love everyone regardless of their radness ranking, I will share the wonderful world of The Bloggess with you and a quote that I have been seeing everywhere this week.  I'm not even exaggerating. It was even stapled to a flier my kids brought home from school. Ok, I'm lying about that part, but it totally should have been stapled to something that was handed to my kids this week because it seriously applies. My kids have been terrible this week. Not sure if it's the full moon, or the upcoming holiday, or what.

I love this lady.


I know it's sort of creepy and weird to write about your hero like this, or maybe it's endearing, I'm not sure. But, I'm going to do it anyway. Jenny Lawson is so real. She's honest about her feelings even when they're not happy or what everyone expects or wants to see, she has an amazing fan base because of her ability to reach out and connect with people, and she is willing to give to people without expecting something in return (check out her posts on ninja book signings... again, rad) and answer any questions that people email to her about how to reach the level of success that she has pushed herself to with hard work and dedication. I am completely in awe of her and hope that one day (if I don't lose interest or my typing fingers) that I can push myself as hard as she has over the years to accomplish my main life goal of being a writer and making a real livable living at the same time.


If you love reading and laughing, her new book is called Furiously Happy and can be purchased on her website here in the left hand side bar. It's the one with Rory The Raccoon who is freaking adorable and is a renowned world traveler.


This is the actual taxidermy muse that was used for the cover of her book. And, here is the post about  
 I am really genuinely happy for Jenny, and there are very few people that I haven't met in real life that I feel true happiness for when things work out in their favor. I mean, sure, I like reading about deserving people having a particularly awesome bout of good karma come their way, but I normally click on something like that, smirk out of amusement, and move on with my day. With The Bloggess, I am inspired by her success, and truly grateful for the chance to read about her life and tales of oddities, motherhood, traveling, emotional triumphs and upheavals alike, and her pets who are either real or stuffed and placed in various positions in her home. 


This is Totes MaGoats.


How can you not be furiously happy for someone with a stuffed goat and a book titled Furiously Happy?! I only hope one day to inspire someone as much as I have been inspired by Jenny and be able to make people laugh as consistently as she has over the years.


7 comments:

  1. I started my blog the day after finishing Jenny's Let's Pretend This Never Happened. I just couldn't help myself, I was so inspired! I love her honest writing style and hilarious stories. So I hear ya, fellow Bloggess fan! And I swear I had a dream the other night about Totes McGoats. I don't remember the context, I never do, but I know somehow he was in my dream.

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    1. I want a Totes tote. I had my blog for a little while (an old blog about depressing divorce stuff that I was trying to make funny by saying it out loud) and when I emailed her she got back to me right away with what I needed to do to become successful. I think a lot of it is spot on because a lot of it is just finding like minded people who you can relate to and keep up with via social media or in real life and I feel like I have a pretty cool little circle so far. It would be hard to keep up with many more, but I'm trying to get out there and read as much as I can from as many talented awesome people as I can without going on overload. And, I'm glad you started your blog!! It's amazing:)

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  2. A couple of weeks ago I went to the library circulation desk because I'd requested a book. The person behind the desk said, "Oh, there are two books reserved for you." I'm absurdly forgetful but I knew I hadn't requested two books but I was, well, furiously happy when she handed over Furiously Happy. Someone had rush ordered it and reserved it for me at the circulation desk BECAUSE LIBRARIANS ARE AWESOME. And they know me.
    And just last night at pottery class we were discussing Georgia O'Keefe and vaginas (as you do) and I asked, "Are y'all familiar with The Bloggess?" It didn't surprise me when a couple of people gushed about how funny she is, but it made me feel happy.
    I know I'm trying to make a point here. I just don't know what it is except that I hope you can also find your niche and get paid for painting. And if you ever have an interest in pottery I know a class.

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    1. I love pottery!!! And, if I ever do get this book thing together I know your library will be on the top of my list to visit. Then after my world famous book signing I will take you and your wife out for a beer and we can people watch and make fun of the ones with huge egos and no awareness. It'll be great.

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    2. Right back at ya. My wife and I once spent a night in Kingman and when we stopped to get gas I noticed a hotel just down the road with a big sign that said "ALIENS WELCOME".
      Yeah, Arizona's gonna be on my book tour, but not in December. The snowstorm we got caught in was scary.

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  3. Where have you been all my life? I'm a Bloggess fan as well, and am currently reading her book. There's nothing better than a good pee-your-pants laugh at 4am when you're working the nightshift. I love how positively positive you were in speaking about the Bloggess. I read so many bloggers in enjoy trash talking her because of their jealousy.

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    1. I haven't seen that personally, but that is no good at all. I think Jennifer is great. I hope she takes all of that in stride. There is absolutely no reason for people not to be supporting of those who deserve success after so much hard work and time poured into something they love and are amazing at!! Thanks for reading, Sandra!! :D

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